Mr. Black Cat's Kitchen Cam :)

I have learned this needs to be in the first paragraph on the page. If you need to ask me if I am straight, gay or bi or whatever, then do not message. I find that these things very seldom surface in conversations about Bonsai, Network Games, Action Figures, etc... If they do, then you can bet you will be blocked anyway. :) These things do not matter because we won't be typing about anything where this makes a difference. You see?
I am just here to have fun! Lets just be sure our fun is compatible... please read my page before messaging... Thanks.

"Here" may be different at times, but this is usually the kitchen. This is nothing exciting, just me cooking, cleaning, eating, caring for the plants in there and normal kitchen stuff. I can't chat from in here, but you are welcome to message me anyway. I can still hear it most of the time. Sometimes I will have another camera up in the computer room. You should be able to go it by clicking here. Sorry it is so slow, I don't have a fast computer or a great internet connection, but it should work as well as this one. (Sad hu?) <G>

Lurking...
If you are going to lurk, I would like to ask that you please do it at least above average. Average lurking is ok, but Power Lurkers are welcome if not preferred.
Thanks. :)

Care to chat? :)

Please note that I am not really into chit-chat and that I type with a large number of people about the topics listed below and a few others. This GREATLY limits the time I chat with any one person. I do not normally type in real-time with most people. I use ICQ more like e-mail than direct conversation. If this is a problem for you please do not message. The only other thing that might cause REALLY slow responses is when my favorite woman in the whole world (Ms Lynn) comes on line. Must keep those priorities straight. ;). I normally do not respond to requests for authorization unless we have typed a good bit or there is a reasonable amount of information in your ICQ info as to what you might want to chat about. If you request authorization before we have typed or agreed to it you will be blocked or put on the ignore list. Initial messages of "Hi" , "Hello", "Wazzzuup" are also usually ignored. People with blank ICQ info are ignored also. If you want to have a real chat, please define it with a little more than "hello" eh? I try to respond to nearly all the messages in some way or another within one week. Usually it is more quickly however. :)

I like lots of things... material and psychological. You are welcome to ICQ me if you think you would like to type about something. My ICQ # is 11215209 and I use AIM as "MrBlakCat" sometimes, but not all the time. If I don't respond, it might be because I am busy, asleep, typing to WAY too many people at once or not even here, so please don't get huffy if I don't respond. I sometimes forget to turn ICQ or IM on. I might also have looked into your ICQ info and you have already been blocked as in some cases. :)

Although I like to type with many people about many things, my preference is theorizing/discussing psychology relative to logical/emotional process interactions. Especially the relationship (or lack of, depending on your view) between IQ (when viewed as cognitive ability) and current theory of Emotional Intelligence (which I disagree with currently.) (Note: I would prefer to discuss only theory because of testing accuracy being limited to comprehension/communication ability.) It is really easy to get stuck into one idea, concept or any way of thinking with things like this, so I like other peoples views to help me develop my own. maybe I can offer the same. Though not limited to, I prefer to type with females about these things due to the more emotional base of females, which I find fascinating, and so often are quite different from my own.**
Female psychologists, therapists, (I am neither of these, by the way...) or anyone else who finds the listed things an area of interest are welcomed. :) (...maybe you could help me also <Grin>.)

Some material things I like are... Almost anything that glows in the dark. Star Wars action figures (pre-Episode One). 3D first person network PC games. (Quake, DooM, DooM II, Heretic, HeXen, Duke Nukem, etc... Growing Bonsai. Killing Bonsai (I don't really like that, but I have mastered it. <Grin>)
(Bonsai related e-mail (ONLY) can be sent to MrBlackCat@planetbonsai.com All non-bonsai related e-mail sent to this account will be deleted and the originating account and associated accounts blocked.)

Things I don't really care to type about... I am not much into sports really. I do not want to type about sex. I don't really watch television any more, so I am out of that loop. Politics/Government I will pass on.

I am interested in (and dislike) many other things besides those listed... and there are very likely some things out there that I don't even know I am interested in yet... I was very hesitant to even list anything that I enjoy because so often, two people do exactly the same thing for totally different reasons. I believe that what a person does means almost nothing... why a person does it, defines a part of his or her character.

I have not decided how much to leave this thing (Mr. Webcam) on yet so I may or may not be here in the time I stated at the right.
Oh yeah... if it is dark, or you can see me asleep, I have probably gone to bed... catch you later. :)

Please no cyber sex, I don't do any shows, I am not gay, and I am not even sexually oriented. (It is fine if you are any of these listed, I am just saying I am not... and generally don't discuss anything related to these on line. :)

**(This is a general statement I did not say ALL females decision making is totally emotionally based and I did not say logical or emotional states were superior or inferior. Not meant as an attack.)

Camera? What Camera?